Male Advice Pleaseee.
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March 5th, 2010
I have been dating my bf for 8 months now. and last night he came over for dinner. he met my parents before and thinks that they are nice. (But my parents are too too nice sometimes) We are european and like to take a lot of food and wine out, and this is something that he is not used to. So when he called I told him let’s have dinner and watch TV. INSTEAD my family decides to take the wine out, take over the whole kitchen, play music, etc.and the whole time I was agitated and annoyed by it, because I specifically asked my parents to let me handle everything. They basically interfered and took over. and that really boiled me up. and it was clear I was a little annoyed. My boyfriend left after awhile because he has work the next day. But that same night I called him twice and left a text saying im sorry for the akwardness and how weird it was and for him to call me when he gets a chance. So today he hasn’t called me or texted me. What is going on. is the relationship over. I love him so much. I can’t stand if I never saw him again. and who knows. he probably thinks my family is WEIRD.
please help.
btw my bf is very nice and sweet and says he loves and cares about me.
Megan says:
btw, i think you are a twatt.
March 5th, 2010 at 11:29 pm
Waterdragon says:
i could not see how anyone could call them weird —- different maybe — i know that would not make me stop seeing someone — im not taking the family out im taking this wonderful person — have fun
March 6th, 2010 at 12:00 am
Daneesha88 says:
Honestly, he’s probably just busy. As girls we tend to flip out and think the worst when in reality, guys just think totally different than we do. This whole ordeal was obviously a HUGE deal to you and true be told, he probably thought it was nothing. As girls, we completely blow everything out of proportion and worry when there is absolutely no reason for it at all. Don’t get too stressed. Guys and girls were made totally different and our minds can’t possibly work on the same wave lengths. I would say he has already text you or called you by now, but if not it will be fine. If he lets something like that come between the two of you guys then he is immature and not worthy of having a relationship with you. It will all work out, don’t stress and worry yourself. Good luck. :]
March 6th, 2010 at 12:50 am
Favian D says:
He’s probably busy or isn’t used to checking his messages like many guys.
You sound needy.
March 6th, 2010 at 1:22 am
NISMOOFFROAD says:
well he may just be trying to get some work done, maybe hes tired just give it a rest, guys hate when chicks call and text them about the same thing multiple times. the phone shows who calls so one call or text will do
March 6th, 2010 at 2:14 am
Kurt Fox says:
Seriously. I’d just relax if I were you. Sounds like you have a decent family. While you might find them annoying, he might just find it amusing and normal. There are a lot of excentric families out there. It helps that these people are willing giving away wine.
What probably annoyed him was: him trying to sleep for work while you’re calling and texting him over something he didn’t think was a big deal. Wait a day or two. Honestly. The more you text and harass him, the more annoying you’ll be. Guys are rubber bands. They need a little space, stretch, but always come back.
March 6th, 2010 at 2:55 am