psychic abilities question.

By on February 28th, 2010

i was sittin with my mom one night and she told me her hand was hurting i touched her hand and then she looked directly at me a said how did u do that the pain is gone and i have no idea how i did it but my hand started to hurt after, another time i walked into my aunts house and felt this very odd cold chill and it felt like someone was staring at me but i was the only one in the room my mom and aunt were in the kitchen talking.and i can feel and sometimes hear spirits around me and some of my closest friends but i cant see them

urgent help needed for exposed interior brick walls.

By on February 27th, 2010

I have 2 exposed interior brick walls. One in the kitchen and one upstairs. One day last December I looked at a bizarre kitchen wall. Many holes appeared and a lot of mortar was gone. Since I live in this house over 30 years I know every corner, every brick, etc. I was not hallucinating.The same happened to the wall upstairs. My first reaction was to call an exterminator. I also want to mention that I changed my heating system from oil to hot water electricity. I noticed approx. 4-5 ms later that I had a tremendous amount of dust all over the house. After two treatments from an exterminator, who insisted I had mice, the situation took a turn for worse. Suddenly I found in my bedroom closet 2 sweaters where the name tag was eaten up, a hole in the sweater was left behind and I found a wet spot in the material. The other sweater just had a wet spot. I called 2 other exterminator companies who insisted I have mice. The company put on different locations glue sheets and mice traps throughout the house. I became pretty upset and restless because up to now we never found a mouse. Yes droppings were found and many holes in the walls. And everywhere you can find small paper look-a-like tiny pieces. They appear like small “twists” made out from paper or silicone. They push themselves through the gaps of the parquette floor. After 2-3 seconds they open up, they fall flat and they look like paper. Most of my furniture and picture frames (they’re mostly in brown tone) have tiny holes and scratches on, and what actually makes me frustrated is their severe discoloration.
With many thanks. Regards, Ruth Weimar rweimar@sympatico.ca

UK Government Grants.

By on February 26th, 2010

Does anyone know if UK Government hand out grants for home improvements such as installation of new kitchens etc. I do not mean DIY - I mean professional work by a builder or kitchen installation company.

Thanks

STAY AT HOME MOMMY MARRIED TO A**HOLE.

By on February 25th, 2010

I have never done this before. I even made another email account so my husband wouldn’t find out that I am reaching out. I cannot reach out to him. I have tried. I have tried to tell my husband how I feel but it gets turned into me, the one with the problem, there is something wrong with me. I tell him how he makes me feel and he will tell me no i dont do that and if you feel that way it is because of you. Maybe he is right. I have even used Dr phils terms.me, i feel.and avoided saying you this and you that.
I am a stay at home mom of three boys 6, 3, 14mo. My six yr old is in school. I am home with 2. We have been married for over seven yrs. My problem is that i feel totally trapped in my house and in life, used, exhausted, overwhelmed, unfocused, tired, ugly, hated, worthless, helpless, hopeless.
I dont know what to do.
I cannot go anywhere by myself, for time to my self, even when my husband is home i cannot leave without taking at least one child. or it is an argument. I have gone out but when I do I come home to a pissed off husband(pissed off i guess cause the kids are acting like kids) my reprieve it immediately over the minute i walk in, as if i never had a break. I will never hear my husband say go sit down, take a load off, you look tired can i help with somehting.,,,is there anything i can do. I take that back.he would say that to anyone but me. And oh my god when i am sick he acts like it is not that big of a deal, i am probably faking it anyway. When i am sick he is more of a jerk cause he knows that i am wanting him to help out. When i am sick he is on me.did you take care of this today.did you do this.etc.
My husband is a carpenter and remodels mostly baths and kitchens but can do it all. He does work hard to support our family. I show him in many many ways that i appreciate him and how hard he works. But i need that too. I need to be valued. I feel helpless. I try to explain how i feel. The fact that i am at home with no adult interaction taking care of everything and everyone and no one there telling me what a great job i am doing. I cannot expect that from my kids.they are kids. I know my husband is not responsible for my happiness but he affects it. He has a boss, customers and paycheck validating what he does everyday. He comes home and says ‘oh mr and mrs so and so loved there new kitchen and custom tile i just did, they thought it was great and that i did a good job’.and keeps on and on about it.he will tell everyone he knows so he can boost his ego .then he has me listening to him confirming that for him. When I paint a room, put up a shelf, re-arrange, organize, beautify, clean, cook an awesome meal etc.if i do anything and hope for some pat on the back or atta girl or that looks great. i dont get it. i get, well it looks like a painted wall, what do you want me to say or why did you do that or nothing at all. What I am looking for is .you did a great job, good idea, that looks good.some sort of validation.anything. I feel more like the hired help, the assistant even his child at times.
after telling my husband, during and argument, that i need a break.he told me i dont get a break unless i drop the kids off somewhere. He denies saying that to this day.
I feel everyone around him gets the best of him and then when it comes to me and our family there is nothing left and we have to deal with that cause he works “for us”. He works approx 7-4p. sometimes more. He would say he works harder than anyone cause of “what he does”.

We live in an older house that needs work and tending to. Shouldn’t be a big deal.that is what he does for a living. He always wants to do the cheap fix, what works not what is the best. You know what they say about a carpenters wife.while he is building mansions the carpenters wife lives in a shack.or something like that. When i ask questions about things i dont know about(house stuff) he almost bites my head off and has this certain tone of voice as if i knew the answer and what a stupid question. I know he doesn’t talk to his customers like that when they ask questions.
When he talks to other people, boss(female boss), his brothers, dad, his friends .I cannot help but to be jealous.he talks to them with total respect doesn’t down them. For example.my husband and i were talking about a certain subject(i cannot remember) and when i voiced my opinion or my side he totally blew up. it of course turned into an argument.i was this and that.so the next day his brother was over and the same subject came up and his brother said exactly what i said, made the same points that i did.and my husband tells his brother oh you might be right, or you have a point i never thought of that. he has respect for his brother.what about me.

He has little patience. He comes home sometimes and with in the first 10-20 min he is yelling at the kids telling th

I’m tired of the abuse from my husband.really need some christian input.

By on February 23rd, 2010

My husband and I recently got married and I feel I should divorce him but I just don’t know. He has a bad past with lying to me over small things and has hit me in the past. It’s a long story but here goes:

We are re-financing our house and for whatever reason, the company left me off the loan again so that left my husband taking care of the paperwork, phone calls, etc. and it’s usually me that takes care of situations since he claims “he has no people skills.” I noticed when he talked to our rep. he was talking to her as if she was his friend or something. In a kind of “melodic” soft tone. I don’t know. So I casually brought something up about it and he said he didn’t know what I was talking about. Anyways, fast forward he’s had to speak with her several times now and we got the news tonight they are not sending the quick claim to change my last name on the documents and I will just have to sign as my maiden name and deal with it later and through some sort of form we can find on a legal site. I just got so upset because it doesn’t make ANY sense and I felt like if he’d reminded her or something instead of making jokes with them on the phone it would be taken care of. So, at this point I was very frustrated and outright said he was too busy “flirting” with her, which I know is not entirely true, and he flipped out as usual screaming at the top of his lungs, and threw our remote. He went online to try to find this form and he had trouble remembering the year we bought the place so I leaned over him to type it and he shoved me into our kitchen table. Now this is not the first time he has shoved me and I told him last time nobody is going to lay their hands on me and I’m out next time it happens. I got up and shoved him back but he was sitting so all he did was lean forward a bit but he jumped up shoved me into our counters and over and over again so I couldn’t catch my balance, I tried fighting back and was screaming don’t touch me, and he eventually shoved me into another room and hit my ear hard. I couldn;t stop crying. He just walked away. I got up and screamed in his face to leave I’m done with this. He screams back it was my own fault, I started it. 10 minutes later he starts crying and saying all this crap about how could I accuse him of flirting, I am the love of his life,etc. He claims “he didn’t mean to hit my ear” and I told him to listen to what he’s saying,.”he didn’t mean to hit his wife’s ear as he was repeadingly shoving her.”

I just don’t know what to do he plays mind games with me all the time when he lies or something and flips it onto me. He also closes up when I try to talk something out and contradicts silly things I say like about the weather or something stupid in front of our families. I’m always wrong to him. I know I SHOULD leave I grew up in a very abusive household and all the flags are there. I feel so paralyzed since I JUST married him and I am Catholic. I briefly brought up anger management for him years ago but never pushed it because it never happened again til now and he never took it upon himself to do it as well. I don’t know if I should enforce it this time around and THEN leave if he doesn’t, or just give up and go.

I need a new company name - any ideas.

By on February 22nd, 2010

I have a kitchen, bath and general remodeling business. I need catchy words that start with I and S. For Example - Company name:
Christian’s Installation Services or Interior Specialties.but hoping for something more catchy. Any ideas.

What is the best tool to cut a rug pad with.

By on February 21st, 2010

I used kitchen shears that are pretty good but I think I ruined them.
The pad is thick and I need to cut it to size for a few area rugs.
(me and my bright ideas. my hand is killing me.)

How would the BNP evict and deport the 1.6 million Muslims that live in the UK.

By on February 20th, 2010

The BNP campaigns against “Multicultural” Britain.they say that Britain should be for the indigenous White-British population, the Scots, Irish, English and Welsh. The Scots and the Irish probably don’t have much time for the BNP and the Welsh are probably close behind in their lack of support.

The Irish and the Scots and the Welsh don’t like bigotry.
. I wonder why that is eh.

aah.but the English.well yes there are many of them that do support the BNP even if it’s just a protest vote for some English people. Enough support has been given to the BNP to win council and euro election seats.

What exactly is the BNP policy on ethnic minorities in Britain.
and where would this right-wing ideology stop.

Muslims evicted from their homes and deported.
Hindus evicted from their homes and deported.
Shi-as and Sikhs evicted from their homes and deported.

All Pakistanis evicted and deported.
All Indians evicted and deported.
All Afro-Caribbeans evicted and deported.

All Eastern Europeans evicted and deported.
While they are at it all continental Europeans evicted and deported.

South-Americans evicted and deported.
Russians evicted and deported.

Black-Africans evicted and .you guessed it .DEPORTED.
maybe all Blacks and Asians would be evicted and deported.

Ban all the issuing of long term visits and work Visas to “Foreign Peoples”.

Make the UK leave the European Union and therefore ban all freedom of travel and freedom to work anywhere in the EU.

Hundreds of thousands of immigrants indiscriminately thrown out onto the streets and forced out of work.desperately roaming the streets seeking out soup kitchens and shelter.before the BNP’s final policies of deporting them out of Britain all-together would come into effect.and where would they deport them to.

Maybe the BNP would like to give them some kind of visual marking or a badge so that they could easily see them in a crowd of “indigenous” people.

You can’t just deport lots of people out of a country expecting other countries to accept more than there fair share of immigrants.

Britain let’s wake up and think about this.

To thousands that voted BNP I ask where is your humanity.

In fact to all of us where is our humanity.

Is the BNP really just a extremist and racist party that just pretends to be caring for the “legitimate concerns” about illegal immigration.to gain influence and power.

There maybe a legitimate debate to be had about immigration, both legal and illegal, into Britain but at present *most ethnic minorities that live in Britain are completely legal .

Is the BNP just a fascist party despite all it’s patriotic rhetoric etc.

Is a party like the BNP the answer to Britain’s future in a globalised world.

*Source BBC, The Independent Newspaper

what is the best floor covering to use for a kitchen remodel.

By on February 19th, 2010

we are remodeling our kitchen and are looking for something nice yet not to expensive as the house will be put on the market, the “DIY” shows on tv all seem to be using wood products, but we also like the look of stone can anyone recommend a product or products

Why do so many Europeans look down on the rest of this planet.

By on February 18th, 2010

I’m sure everyone has heard of the famous “European snobbery” that is typical of a lot of Europeans. What drives this attitude. My sister worked for a French chef who said that the Peruvians working in the kitchen were “not too bright, but they work cheap so we keep them.” I’ve worked with Europeans for years now and it IS interesting how they see the rest of this planet. An Irish girl I worked with had quite a high pedestal. Why. What makes these people think they are so great.

Please keep in mind I’m asking just about some Europeans and I’d like answers that pertain to that.
To Dreamer: Please stop dreaming and look at Europe for what it is and was, a hotbed of intolerance for anything that wasn’t European. Ask a native how they feel about Europeans “discovering” them.