another relationship question. do you think i have a chance.

By on July 25th, 2009

well ive known her for a while anyway at school, but she started working down where i was and started to form a working friendship. have a good laugh with each other.
well it was around october last year i decided to ask for her msn after having a crush building up inside me, plus i thought i saw possible signs that she had the same feelings.
i got to know a lot more about her a few conversations online and eventually was about to ask her out knowing she was single and i had nothing to lose. but well something went into my mind to send her a email saying that i loved her and how i felt about her but stating i wasnt asking her out in that email. she replied a week after i sent it because she didnt go online for a while and she replied she would rather continue to be friends because she would like to concentrate on college and have good times with her female friends (sort of hangs a lot more with her female friends, hardly hangs around with just lads on her own).
i was happy with that and i carried on being good mates with her. probs is her best friend started working down there as well and she knew me from school as well (both of them are a year younger) i sort of made a reputation at school which was good but i never hanged around with them because i was to busy playing sports like football.
she does not even go to my college, well after a while i had to eventually turn my attention away from her and move on because it just seemed hopeless, so i was trying to go after someone from my college. she didnt know her but found out i fancied someone at my college because a person where i work started blabbing on about it after i told him.
then even more time went by and her friend seemed very interested in me, giving very big signs. or what i thought was signs of interest. but i never fancied her because she was the best friend of the girl i still have a crush on even though im trying to go out with someone else (id admit to make her jeolous, didnt seem to work ).
also i went to a meal with both of them around christmas time and the girl i liked would go to the toilet but her best friend would always say im coming with you. there was other people there, but older who worked own at the workplace.
well recently (9 months on) i feel in my gut i have the best chance ever, she seems very interested but her best friend does not talk to me the same as she used to before.
she went on holiday for three weeks and keeps asking me if i have missed her. obv i say i have but always make a joke after, i like joking around with people. but after a while she came in and said whenever i come in here i get dissed and looked at me with a look i cant describe, but a good look if you know what i mean by any chance.
im working her quite a lot of the days and i eep having the feeling she is going to say
something like ask me out but it never happens
AND THE GREAT THING IS SINCE IVE ASKED HER OUT SHE HAS REMAINED SINGLE. and true to her word about just wanting to hang around with her female friends and concentrate on college.
but when she is around other people ( this is in a kitchen with some older blokes like in there 40s who i know she does not find attrative)
she will not look at me or in my direction, and its making me always look at her and she does not even look for a second and then i doubt myself. she also trys to makes jokes as well.

i dont know what to do, i cant ask her out again because i have already told her my feelings and hat was 9 months ago i would sound like i keep on about it. should i just wait and hope. because i just need to know how she feels so i can move on with my life if she isnt interested