Comments on: Need advice and opinion in this relationship.

By: Smoothy

Smoothy — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

Wow
seriously just wow

By: Alu

Alu — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

This was really long, but it caught my interest.

You can’t really have any sort of relationship with her as she continues to lie and then cover up, over and over. Because that’s what it sounds like she’s doing. There can’t have been this many coincidences. You should tell her how you feel one more time, and how she has hurt you and broken your trust, and then you should break off any communication with her. She’s only going to continue to do this, and you will be hurt again in the future if this goes on any longer. If she can’t be honest with you then it really isn’t a good relationship.

By: flubster666

flubster666 — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

You must get over this woman and move on.

By: tinydancer

tinydancer — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

you remember. waiting for the additional details.
i don’t know where this question is going but you seem to have put an awful amount of effort into writing it that i feel it’s my duty to read it.

my answer will probably read something along the lines of: don’t get (essentially buy) a russian bride, or any type of internet bride. just go out and meet real people, and form real life relationships.

By: kikik k

kikik k — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

long distance relationship won’t last for long most of the time.
but u n her need to talk tell her everything what u feel about her n u don’t trust her then if she agree with it carry on but make yourself ready in case anything happen.

By: Starman

Starman — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

I’m really sorry to say it, but you are being scammed. Google Larisa’s full name and the word scam. Does she appear anywhere, or do you see her photo on any websites rooting out scammers. I hope not, but I’m afraid you may. I personally think all the warning signs are staring you in the face, but you don’t want to accept it. She’s either trying to meet someone else, or scamming several men at the same time, and enjoying holidays with men who will happily pay for everything. I really hope I’m wrong, but I doubt it.
PS. I know it seems ruthless, but google her email address too, and check through the photos on websites reporting scammers. Try romancescam.com. The number of women there may shock you.

By: tanner

tanner — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

what i personally feel is that you have your dream of who she is, you have creation of her in your mind and you are unable to see the truth in the situations. that is where the saying love makes you blind. what is so obvious to us readers is so foggy to you. i am sorry, i feel bad for you. i believe in NOT WAISTING TIME, it is one life that we have and you seem to really want true love in your life. if that is so then you need to end communication with her because it is very clear that she pllays games and can not be trusted with your heart. she is an illusion, who you want her to be but she is not really that person. the person you love was created with crafty words that are empty of truth so get rid of her and find love.

By: Boris

Boris — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

You can check if she is looking for other man. Just ask a friend of yours to create another dating profile and contact her. A few questions and you will know if she continues her seeking a man.

Sometimes people can’t stop seeking through online dating profiles. It is more common for men, but this time it is female’s mistake.

It is possible that she just wants to leave her country marrying anyone from US. It happens that Russian girl is looking for a chance to leave her country rather than looking for a man to fall in love with. It becomes disaster earlier or later for both partners.

In any case you have to be open-hearted with yourself. Your relationship is saturated with lie and jealousy. Earlier you stop it, earlier both of you get a chance to find true love. Yes, your heart will be broken for half a year or longer, but I believe that some time later you will remember it with no pain, maybe with smile) Many of us passed through such situation. The best cure for solitude is love.

There are lots of ladies looking for love (and not only Russian). Please note, be aware of scammers if you continue online dating. Every reliable dating service has its own wide base of scammers in addition to public ones. But it is still a real problem.

I suggest you to stop communication with Larisa. Do not nurse a grievance against her. It would be bad for you, not for her. Forgive her and wish her good luck.