Comments on: Is what my hubby did legal .

By: Quiet Desperation, Lost Reality

Quiet Desperation, Lost Reality — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

Yep, irrational. Call the cops and get an OOP.

By: Wanda the Warrior

Wanda the Warrior — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

I have no clue of the legal issues in this situation but if I were him I probably would’ve done the same thing.but earlier.

By: divina

divina — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

Call the police.

By: Jonny B

Jonny B — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

It was his to do with as he saw fit. You ruined his life.

Serves you right.

I hope you lose everything.

By: BobbiBlu

BobbiBlu — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

I think you have learned a very strong lesson here and that he is gone.

By: adelle-rose

adelle-rose — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

Definatly phone the police. It was criminal damage after all, have you tried speaking to your husband. It was also animal neglect, that’s another charge that could be brought against him, if you do want a divorce looks like you have grounds now on “unreasonable behavior.”

By: Tammy O

Tammy O — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

You can call the police but all they will probably do is take an incident report whereas no one actually saw him do it sorry. Now what you should do is realize that things are not going to get any better between the two of you it will end very badly and if you are still pregnant you could risk the welfare of your unborn baby. But now you need to take your lumps you did something that caused a chain reaction so clean up your mess and move foward books can be replaced and so cant appliances but you and your baby irreplaceable

By: u*asked

u*asked — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

Make a police report asap. take pictures of the destruction. the police can tell you about any further action. file a small claims case against him for restitution. A judge can make him pay you for all of the damage that you can prove. document with pictures, police report, witnesses.
get a restraining order.
if the appliances are in your name then file theft reports and give his location and if he has the property he will be picked up.
His anger is understandable but his reaction was dangerously uncontrollable. What will happen next.
Nothing you have done can justify his actions.
Don’t hesitate. Start immediate proceedings. Don’t tell him what you are doing either just DO IT.

Begin divorce proceedings. This man does not need to be anywhere near you and especially your child. Imagine what he will do emotionally and physically to the child because it isn’t his.
His actions demonstrate his propensity to violence. Count yourself lucky he is gone but do whatever is necessary to protect yourself.

Stop feeling guilty. The damage is done. He handled it poorly. Now it’s time to focus on your child.

By: wmayers99

wmayers99 — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

A police report would provide a proven record of what was done. You’ll need a lawyer to keep from being screwed even worse when your hubby files for divorce. And perhaps a shrink to explain why you felt that the way to deal with stress was to get laid. That, my dear, was a dumb thing to do.
Don’t compound the dumbness by failing to demand, through the courts if necessary, financial support for your yet-unborn child from the real father. Your child depends on you not to be stupid any more.

By: Sophie E

Sophie E — Tue, 30 Nov 1999 00:00:00 +0000

sounds like a pretty rocky relationship.
you should call the police press charges and have no more contact with him, as your number 1 priority now is your baby. if he wasn’t comfortable bringing up some1 elses baby he shouldn’t have said he would support you or your child. knowing that your pregnant and to still cause you all this stress only proves that he doesn’t care.
congratulations on your pregnancy. just try not to stress to much. take care and good luck. ****